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1. Should all students be required to study art and music in secondary school?
2. Why do children share the household tasks with their parents?
3. Why is the family the mót important influence on the children?

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3. Why is the family the mót important influence on the children?

In each family the role of parents is important. In Vietnamese tradition, men are usually the owners of the family. The father is the mainstay, the expression of the highest cultural personality so that children learn and follow. Mother is the prop, the main psychological nucleus, the source of fire loving warm family, source of infinite love for children. So the family is the first cultural cradle to shape the personality of children.
The baby is born from the mother's womb, is fed from the breast milk, is listening to her mother's warmth to fall asleep. She is the first child to be contacted when crying, who teaches children from words to eat, teach children the first steps. In addition to parent-child relationships, there are also conjugal relationships. This is the basic relationship between the natural, biological, economic and moral aspects. Family culture in general, spousal relationship in particular has a direct influence on the formation and development of personality of family members. The moral atmosphere of the family directly affects the way of thinking, the way of life of children. All conflicts in the family, especially between parents, affect the children. In the thinking of young children always keep the shape, the words of parents.

In the family, in addition to the relations mentioned above there is a relationship between grandparents and grandchildren, siblings and children. The stronger the relationship, the more it enriches the spiritual life of the individual in the family. Older adults have to set the example, adjust their behavior to meet the ethical and cultural issues and relationships within the family. The old saying "the vegetables are deep," the lifestyle of parents and family members greatly affect children.

Being a good person when growing up is not easy at all. It can not be subjective to say that "parents born birth sky" that the phrase "in the round, in the tube is long" is very true for children. Education of children can not only by words but by specific tasks, all behaviors, attitudes and lifestyles of adults have a direct impact on the formation and development of the child's personality. Children will not respect adults if they see their parents showing disrespect.

When parents teach their children to be polite to their parents, but they do not respect their parents (grandparents), they will certainly never be polite to their parents, grandparents or grandparents. Parents who care about their children will pay attention to the education of the personality of the child, to teach the child not to lie to adults, to be honest and to acknowledge defects, to thank the gift . But there are also many families who are not interested in educating children, adults who treat each other with words, gestures, unrepentant acts ... these bad deeds have reflected on the immature souls of children, make the children up gruff, rude. The family environment plays a decisive role in the development of children. Family conflicts, disruptions in families or families have pushed many children into a state of total inadequacy, many of whom fail to overcome this difficulty have fallen ill with depression. , psychological disorder or homelessness, wandering, guilty.

The family factor is responsible for the initial socialization of the individual, affecting the formation of the child's original quality and personality. If these qualities are right at the beginning, the child will easily spoil. Old people said that wanting children to become traders should be near the market, want children or letters are near the school, if near theft, near the robbery sooner or later also become robbers. "Near the ink is black, near the lamp is bright," the proverbial proverb still remains valuable. Live in families with parents or other adults who have a culturally unethical behavior, including criminal offenses, such as parental discord or verbal abuse, alcoholism, drug addiction, theft , embezzlement ... these bad examples make children gradually despise law, infection of bad habits and easily attracted and then gradually break the law. Only children with strong willpower, high self-esteem, early evaluation of right and wrong will avoid these negative effects. There are also many cases where parents are good people, have sufficient knowledge but do not pay due attention to the education of their children or have no conditions close to the child, some dependents on the school, some business, make a living or go on business for a long time;

Having divorced parents, having illegitimate children, one of the two dead ... leads to abandonment of children, lack of parental education and love, no education and caring for the child. there will be psychological deviation, freedom stubborn, needless. They are easily committing crimes when they are dragged, dragged ... There are families of parents who are ignorant or uncontrollable should consider the beating or use of corporal punishment as their right. When a child is at fault, his or her parents are upset, anxious, and lash out on the child's head